
by Greg Mckeown
Why it helps I think related to how the book is structured. Let me show you the table content that reflects its structure:
Introduction
Part I: Essence (The Core Mindset)
Part II: Explore (Discern the Vital Few from the Trivial Many)
Part III: Eliminate (Cut Out the Trivial Many)
Part IV: Execute (Make Execution Effortless)
Conclusion
If I want to connect the dots, I would relate to Eat that Frog!book, when the most important things in our life might just take 10% of very important things. Once you address this 10% well, everything really just the noise that could make your perfectionism and overthinking less bothering.
This could be a bias, but I do trust Harvard Review or Harvard Press, haha I bought it in Harvard Bookstore, so definetely you will find Harvard review here, and Standford as well in this book case. I love them.
Greg emphasize on having sufficient sleep, to be able to well operated as effective human being. DO NOT compromise about sleep.
I had a takeaway on parenting. Short term reward, and big long term reward. Positive ticket. When children do bad things, we have this ticket as punishment right, but when they do good things, we should acknowledge them as well, to be you know, human. People like inspiration, people need to feel good about theirself to sustain the kindness and good things going.
This book made me less overthink, and want to be people pleasing, because we can always communicate our values to whoever we want, to set our boundaries, and the good thing is PEOPLE UNDERSTAND. Just communicate your boundaries.
Yea, do the 10% first, 100%.
Pick your battle. Not every circumstances deserve your 100% energy.
See the bigger picture, write them down, select, and position yourself accordingly.
Nothing.
Parents, employers, students, who want to be less overthink. Less people-pleasing. Seeing the bigger picture and long term pathway.