
by Michelle Obama
I listened to the audiobook that I borrowed from the City of Melbourne Library, so it is a special credit for them. I spent 19 hours listening to it, mostly I did it while doing the dishes, doing chores, and commuting.
Michelle herself narrates the book, so the experience is unique, as if I were hearing her story firsthand. Shout-out to her and her publisher, so I can also listen to the voice dynamics as the background feeling.
She talked about her upbringing, the journey of being born as black in a suburb in Chicago, playing in other suburb to find out it was the "white" residence, and how her family's car witnessed the racism in the form of scractch on purpose. I might not understand this if I were not living abroad myself, where I am not the majority race. Somehow, I can relate.
Michelle is an ordinary woman just like us, with her dreams, her insecurities, her fears, and her love life. I can relate to most of the stories, other than being the first black family to run the white house, of course.
Writing essays was one of the extracurricular activities she always joined and ended up helping her in her way to Princeton and being a lawyer.
Her career, even though financially fulfilling as a lawyer, made her doubt that she would be a good mother or have an impact on society.
She was not forgiving of Donald Trump when he spread false rumors to the media, nationwide and internationally, which offended her family. And she feared he would lead the country (she had earlier doubted he would make it), and it has happened twice by now.
Her perseverance in learning the piano her own way and at her own pace, despite her aunt's "hard" method as the piano teacher in her community.
Her mom and dad gave her brother Crag and her the best life they could, one they as children did not need to know the hardships their parents endured to provide. It gave them the confidence to become themselves and end up at Princeton and Harvard. This part I can relate as my parents have been doing the same for me.
Michelle was once a dreamer, confident, but somehow when she attended Princeton, she still had the insecurity with "what if I am not good enough." She carried this up to her husband, Barack Obama's run for the presidency.
She wanted to balance her career and her role as a mom. And she still wants to contribute and serve her values to others, primarily women and children.
She doesn't care about her outfit or makeup (just like me), and she ended up hiring the local boutique owner and makeup artist she knows to help her during her time in the White House. (Something I would do, haha.)
She is exceptionally sentimental and loves her family so much. She framed herself as a conventional lover. She is also a considerate person, who did not want heavy security for her family time, dinner with Barack, when possible.
The school shootings in the USA also made her concerned. And how black people are often accused of doing that.
I rattled when she talked about Iraq, so maybe my next plan is to read Zohran Mamdani's dad's book about 9/11.
Career women who want to have Michelle Obama's perspective of being "the first" black family to run the most powerful house in the world.
Bright moms with an abundance of love for their family.
"Becoming is a lifelong journey to have your authenticity and voice, yet you use it to listen and understand others better. "
Simone Stolzoff
Morgan Housel, narrated by David Sterling